As we acknowledge Black History Month, it’s important to recognize the voices and stories that are shaping the future of hockey. Nyla Barbon is one of those voices—making an impact in the coaching world. Though she’s only been coaching for two years, Barbon has already made a significant impact on her players, inspiring them to grow not just as athletes, but as confident individuals.
Barbon’s journey into coaching started with a deep love for the game. “I played hockey for thirteen years—about 10 years in minor hockey, and then I also played Junior A,” she says. “I decided that I would still love to stay included with my community and help out coaching. Additionally, I coach my younger sister, which helps me stay close to her and spend more time with her”.
As a newer coach, Barbon has already experienced moments that have shaped her into the leader she is today. “It feels like every game is a highlight moment,” she expresses. One of the highlights for her has been watching her players develop and gain confidence both on and off the ice. “With the way the kids play together, communicate, joke around with us coaches, it makes me feel nostalgic and makes me feel like I’m back playing with all my friends” she shares. “Being there is the highlight itself, it’s the highlight of my winter. I am still passionate about this sport; I just get to be passionate from the bench.”
For Barbon, coaching isn’t just about skills or strategies—it’s about positive encouragement. “I was one of the only girls playing on my team growing up majority of the time, so having male coaches. That pushed me to my goals and told me, you know, you are a good hockey player. You are good at skating. You are good at this. Insanely inspirational. It changes the way a kid feels about themselves and their sport,” she explains. “When someone other than a parent or sibling or someone super close to them can says ‘hey I’m super proud of you, you’re doing amazing.”
She not only leads with encouragement but was also shaped by strong mentors and leadership growing up. “Every single one of my coaches growing up, all male coaches expect for one, all super amazing people, amazing dads, amazing humans and they pushed me to do better and told me I could do anything I wanted on the ice. Which I did!”
This is especially important for Nyla as she reflects on Black History Month. “it’s important in the way where it allows kids that might feel like they’re not welcome in the sport, or make kids feel like they’re not good enough to play hockey, or make kids, you know, those that feel they’re not quite adequate enough though, to others, that they can do it, and they can be a part of it” she says.
“Because I can say for sure that I don’t look the same as a lot of the people that I played with or the people that coached me or just anyone around me in the town I grew up in, I look significantly different and I think that as a little girl if I were to have seen a woman coach who maybe doesn’t look like everybody else on the team, I would have been like, okay, wow, there’s somebody that can represent me and my goals and what I could see myself doing as a young child.”
Barbon’s commitment to fostering an inclusive environment and creating opportunities for young players—especially young women—speaks to her dedication to the game. Even though her coaching career is still in its early stages, she’s already paving the way for the next generation. “I want to be that for other little girls. And it’s amazing to be in the arena right now and see so many young kids from everywhere playing hockey and being a part of it. And even coaching, we play against teams that are their startup teams. It’s kids that maybe wouldn’t have never stepped on the ice, but because these associations and these communities are making it safe and inclusive, same with Hockey Canada, it’s happening and we’re seeing it.”
For anyone who’s inspired by Nyla’s journey and is interested in coaching, Hockey Alberta offers resources and opportunities to get started. Whether you’re new to coaching or looking to expand your skills, there’s always room for more passionate individuals in the world of hockey.